The Quest for Solitude
There are two sides to seeking solitude. There are those who are running
away from something; and there are those who are running after something.
The first are those who seek solitude as a relief from their frenetic
and busy lifestyles in the city with its crowds, noise, the stress of
the workplace and hectic social life. They seek times and places of solitude
for rest and renewal. For them solitude is an end in itself.
Then there are those who seek solitude because they are running after
something. Monks, nuns and hermits seek solitude in order to find someone.
My soul is athirst for God, athirst for the living
God. (Psalm 42:2)
Dry as a thirsty land, I reach out to you. (Psalm
143:6)
We all know that, for concentration upon a given matter, a certain detachment
from competing interests is necessary, both externally and internally.
So solitude provides that environment for this to happen in our desire
for a more intimate relationship with God.
Sometimes, when we approach a person and wish to speak with them personally,
we will ask them "Are you busy?"
or we will knock on the door of the office and ask "Are
you alone?" meaning "Are you free
and disengaged?". This is what is being sought in solitude.
The privacy of the room, to which our Lord bids us to go, and to shut
the door to seek God's face in prayer has a depth beyond a warning against
spiritual pride. The room, like solitude, is a necessary place of separation
conducive to being attentive and focussed on Him speaking to us.
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